Women / Marriage - Food for Soul

1. The Qur’an refers to the women as ‘Mohsana’, that is a ‘fortress against the devil’.

And if a woman, who’s good, marries a man, she prevents him from going on the wrong path.



2. The Qur’an say’s that, ‘We have put love into the hearts of the husband and wife’.

Surah Rum, Ch. 30, Verse No. 21: "And amongst our signs We have created for you mates or companions, so that you may dwell in them in tranquillity and we have put love and mercy between your hearts"


3. Surah Nisa, Ch.4, Verse No.21, marriage is considered as a strong agreement, a strong contract.


4. A Hadith which says in Ibn-Hambal - Hadith No 736, 7396. Says that:

‘the most perfect of the believers are those that are best in character and behavior,and those that are best to their family and their wives’. 


5. Qur’an clearly mentions that men and women, husband and wife have equal rights in all aspects, except leadership in the family. 


Surah Baqarah Ch.2, Verse No.228: "...the women have been given rights similar against them (men) on equitable terms but the men have a degree higher...".

Most of the Muslims have misunderstood this verse, when it says ‘a men have a degree higher’ - one should analyze the Qur’an as a whole.

And its mentioned in Surah Nisa, Ch. 4, Verse No.34 which says, ‘The men are the protectors and maintainers of the women, for God has given one of them more strength than the other and they give them their means’.

6. Surah Baqarah, Ch.2, Verse No.187, which says, Which means… ‘Your wives are your garments, and you are their garments’.

What’s the objective of garments - It is used to conceal and to beautify.

The husband and wife, should conceal each others faults, and they should beautify each other - Its a relationship of hands and gloves.


7. Hadith - Transmitted by Tirmidhi, Narrated Umm Salamah The Prophet (saw) said: If a woman dies while her husband was pleased with her, she will enter Paradise.


8. Surah Nisa, Ch.4, Verse No.19, that, ‘...consort with them (your wives) in kindness, for if you hate them it may happen that you hate a thing wherein God has placed much good. 

Resource from http://www.ilovezakirnaik.com/

Shoo...H2O can hear us..

There has been some debates on the fact that water molecule are Concious, Alive, able to respond to many external influences such words uttered, music, environment, Prayer, etc tec.


 A Japanese Writer (Not a scientist) has written several book on this topic.. Masaru Emoto. He has also taken few pictures, among it been circulated through email which claim to be th molecule of  Zam Zam water.. 


I remember one of my student done an experiments by putting 2 containers with porridge in it. Both containers are treated differently but kept in the same temperature and lighting environment. The difference of treatment are as follows:


Container 1: Is pastes with a Note outside and inside with words such  I LOVE U, U ARE BEAUTIFUL  :)


Container 2: Paste a Note with I HATE U, U ARE UGLY!!!!..DISGUSTING!! :( :( :(


everyday she went to these 2 containers and "talk" to it (?).. as follows::


Container 1: All positive words like..".I love U so much..U are Pretty, Gorgeous, I like U..Happy Happy.. Love love..etc etc..(All positive words)" + plus some kissing on the container.


Container 2: "U Ugly thing, I hate U so MUCH...Dirty, Stupid, Horrible, SMELLY..YUCKs!"


In a week time, Of course both containers with porridge became rotten but there are slight difference between both containers, as follows:


Container 1: colour of content does change..its rotten but not as bad as Container 2..slight Yellowish colour.


Container 2: Smell Bad, colour Change to Yellowishy Orangee


This student of mine done it many times..Which is has the same results. She actually brought it to class and show us the results. Hmmmm...something to thinks of, share if U have any info on this matter..interesting to look into :)

Photo of Distilled Water Crystal (Emoto, Messages)

Photos of Tap Water Crystals (Emoto, Messages)

Photos of Spring Water Crystals (Emoto, Messages)

Distilled Water Crystals after Music (Emoto, Messages)

Distilled Water Crystals after Written Words (Emoto, Messages)

Image of the water molecules from the Zam-Zam well in Makkah

Youtube link on interview with Masaru Emoto:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rZDOPQRdxJM

If this is true, imagine what our thoughts is doing to our body... since its consists of 70% water.

I have also heard that the strucure changes when U recite Dua or Quran Verse..which changes to a beautiful structure.

Wallahuallam Bissawab...

Interesting to read:
http://www.is-masaru-emoto-for-real.com/



http://www.harmoniousliving.co.za/Wellbeing/Alternative-Healing/Interview-Dr-Masaru-Emoto-on-the-Emotional-Memory-of-Water/

8 Glasses of Water....WHY?

There are many articles about the goodness of drinking enough water, but still..many unaware of this miracle of H2O that God has given in its most natural way. This 8 glasses of water is referring to Plain Water and NOT Coke, teh ais / teh O ais, nescafe, Limau suam, etc etc etc.. if I had made my self clear...U may proceed to the Miracle of Water as follows:


1. Help to send Oxygen to your brain


Drinking enough water will aid in concentration and mental alertness. Our brain needs a lot of Oxygen and water to maximize its functions. 

Our brain tissue is made of around 80% of water, so U need to drink to make sure it functions properly. U also need water to send Oxygen to your brain, how it works? Well, Blood transport nutriens and oxygen to our brain, thus U need a vast amount of blood circulation, Blood is made mainly of water. Conclusion: Drink more, send more oxigen to brain, Stay focus in Class / work. :)


2. Help reduce Fat


Few main points on this:

•  Kidney needs enough water to function properly, or else some of their loads is dumped to the Liver, and the Liver main function is to turn fat into energy. So, if Kidney can't do the its tasks completely, Liver have to finish it..thus Liver metabilozed Less fat.. Conclusion: More Fat stored in body.

• During weight loss, the body has more waste to get rid of, and all that metabolized fat must be shed.

• People are normally confused between thirst and hunger feeling. If there is slight dehydration which trigger thirst feeling, it can be mistaken for hunger. So U will tend binge when body is actually craving for fluid. Drinking enough water will help U tame your appetite coz it will also give the feeling of full in stomach. Tips: Drink 1 glass of water 10 minutes before U eat, U'll eat less :)

P/S: it is really funny to think of those who drink less water with hope that Weight Scale gonna drop. Of course its gonna drop coz  your body is made of 70% water. But does your FAT drop too?...


3. Maintain muscle tone


It allow proper muscle contraction and prevents dehydration. It also helps to prevent the sagging skin that usually follows weight loss.


Muscle tissue consists of 75% water, obviously U need water to build muscles. Water also aid digestion, thus in order to get your muscle building nutrition (Protein) to its destination quickly, Fluid it up!


Dehydration also stimulates catabolic (muscle destroying) hormones and increases the cortisol response to exercise.


4. Better skin complexion


Adequate water gives U fresh look skin, bright eyes, hydrated plump skin. It flushes out toxins thus aid in your detoxification process which results to anti-aging effect. Having this drinking habit will improve skin radiant while giving U the natural glow.. find it difficult to believe? ...try drinking 8-10 glasses of water for a week. See the difference :)


 5. Feeling Bloated?..Drink!


Bloatness is caused by water retention. Mostly coz salt/sodium intake which leads to water retention is cell tissues..means U have excessive fluids in cells, how to drain it out?.. believe it or not, U need to Drink in order to flush out those excessive water, exercise will also speed up the process. Water will also flush out those sodium intake u had, from Maggie mee, Can / processed foods, Pizza, hot dogs, all those lauk U bought in stalls..It all contains lots of sodium..Not good.


6. Makes U feeling fresh all day


Lack of water makes U feel sluggish and tired all day..U got to try drinking as suggest then U'll feel the difference I meant :) 


References:
http://www.weightlossforall.com/benefits-water-drinking.htm
http://www.shapeupshop.com/weightloss/water-weight-loss.html
http://www.globalhealingcenter.com/water-foundation-healthy-body.html
http://www.iqmindbrainlibrary.com/
http://www.gettinglean.com/h2o.htm
http://www.naturalskincaresecrets.com/benefits-of-drinking-water-for-skin.html